Monday, May 7, 2012

Musings


I have grown a lot over the years in this subject. 
It took and still takes.. practice, different experiences, and more practice to feel grateful for what I do have, and allow it to be enough.
But not only that, having gratitude really helps me be genuinely happy for other people when good things come their way.
Happy.  Not bitter, jealous, or sad. 
How much easier it is this way. :) 
I get to bypass all that junk of emotions that I used to feel, and just feel happy for that person. Because Hey! They deserve good things! 
When I do catch myself feeling self pity.. Because that's what it is really.. it doesn't help anything! And of course all I want to do is vent to someone.. but guess what.. no one wants to hear someone whine about how unfair life is. Now I can catch myself when i start to feel like that... I stop. I really think about what I'm feeling... how silly it is. And I literally think about what I do have. And it is so much. My life is full. What I have now.. is completely enough. I am blessed.
Things happen at different times in everyones' separate lives. And it's a beautiful great thing.
My time will come. 






7 comments:

Landon and Julie said...

Beautifully said. Thanks for sharing.

Hansen's said...

I'm def in the middle of learning this lesson right now. I have a feeling it's going to take a while to learn though. Good thoughts lady!

Ashley said...

Thank you for that simple but powerful reminder!

Kim Denison said...

I needed this today. Thanks :)

kim said...

This is so true, and it doesn't matter how old you are! It is a tough lesson, but one that can change your life! You are amazing! Thanks for being who you are!

Kent and Wendy said...

that was very powerful - I really needed to hear that - thanks!

Dearest Lou said...

What an amazing and powerful post dear! Thanks for sharing!

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Cecilia
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